Xfire
Xfire is an old but great tool with enemy territory although the classic version is by far the best for ET due to support and in game issues.In the newer versions there are bugs and you can't see who is on the server, just a number of how many is on.It also is a great Instant Messenger that keeps gamers and clan members in touch. Here is the link.
http://classic.xfire.com/download/Download--> run--> If it ask to install extra stuff don't just plain xfire is all you need.
It should automatically detect ET. Then you can go to servers refresh it will list all. You can add to your favorites. Then when you right click on them it will show the server and who is on. Also in your options you can enable chat logging(comes in handy)if desired and under privacy you have the option to show what server you are playing on(default shows).You can also join that server by simply clicking on it.
Go to tools then options then xfire in game and it will show you what the hot keys are to chat while playing in game which is a powerful admin tool as well as a fun social messenger without closing or minimizing your game.
If you go to the little friends box and punch it, at the bottom of screen you will see add friends. Add me my xfire is jdubbb1974.
Any questions as always pm me or simply post.